Happy May Day

Yesterday we joined Emily and Dan at the May Day parade in Minneapolis. We ended up on opposite sides of Bloomington Ave, but chatted on cell phones and they got to watch Erik's wide eyes during the parade.

 

Erik's favorite part of the parade came early on when the marching band had a tuba! His favorite musical instrument!

 

A large group called Sprout. They wore green and passed out little tastes of sprouts. We declined.

 

 

Bears that came by right before the finale.

Thanks Bonnie!

Here's an old picture of Adin in a sweater that my friend Bonnie knit. You can't imagine how soft this sweater is. When Adin outgrows it, I want to make it into something for me to snuggle.

Digger

Erik got a shovel for his birthday. He's enjoyed walking down to the community garden with me and digging. It's great because there's nothing planted so he can dig as much as he wants!

Caught red handed

I fed Adin while Erik was watching Sesame Street. Then I got Erik some pizza and jello. He started eating but needed some help in the bathroom. When we were done, I came back into the dining room and found Adin had helped himself to Erik's pizza.

Taking turns

I'm not sure why I start a new post for each separate thing, but oh well.

So we were out in the backyard this afternoon, and Adin was interested in the little slide. That, of course, meant that suddenly Erik was also interested in it. So they took turns on the slide. Erik prolonged his turns by sitting at the bottom and top of the slide as long as possible. When Adin was done with his turns, I had to lift him out of the way so he didn't get hit by Erik sliding down. Adin would wriggle and fight to get back down so he could take another turn.

Finally, I hit upon the idea of having Adin walk around to the back of the slide and wait back there for his turn. He reacted by pushing Erik down the slide! Luckily, Erik found this hilarious and wanted Adin to do it over and over again.

Adin loves Erik

Today, Erik went down for a nap at 1:30, Adin at 2:00. Adin woke at 3:00, Erik at 3:45. When Adin and I heard Erik wake up and cry (his usual response to waking up from a nap), Adin's head just snapped up, he slid off my lap and crawled like lightning to Erik's room. The whole time he's calling to Erik. He crawls to Erik's bed and starts petting Erik, putting his head down on Erik, squealing with joy, just doing everything he possibly could to show Erik love.

Erik was not yet ready to receive love, so I took Adin out of the room. Oh, how he protested. If I set him down, he just crawled back. I brought him in the bathroom (one of his favorite places) and he crawled out. I brought him back in and shut the door. Adin banged on the door, cried and called out to Erik. I relented and let him crawl back to Erik's bed.

Fortunately, by this time, Erik was ready to receive the love. He laughed every time Adin patted him.

Erik's bedtime story

Here's the story Erik told me at bedtime tonight:

Once upon a time there were four little pigs and four big bad wolves. All the pigs had houses. The wolves blew them all down. They went in the houses and tried to eat the pigs. The pigs ran away. The wolves ran after them and tried to eat them again. One pig built his house of bricks. The other pigs built their houses of straw. The pig went to bed and dreamed the big bad wolf turned into a big nice wolf. And it came true! Then there were four big nice wolves. They didn't blow the houses down. The end.

Celebrating Erik's birthday at Barnehage

Laura makes the kids a crown the week we celebrate each of their birthdays.



Here's Erik during circle time, trying to decide who to throw the ball to.



Here he is bravely standing in the middle of the circle while the class walks around him and sings "Hurrah for deg".

Adin is walking

Adin has been taking a few steps the last few days. He's become much more confident in the last week. I've been trying to get video of him walking but he just sits down when he sees me with the camera!

Erik's first poem

"Red means stop
Green means go
Let's go drink
some hot cocoa."

1st word

We keep a row or two of rubber duckies on the window sill in the bathroom. Adin will often reach for one as we leave. Today he got one, I said, "do you want a duck" and he said "duh...k". It was very exciting!

First Haircut

 

 

 

 

Sweet!

 

I put out a cup of pudding for Erik. Guess who found it first?

Hands

We sing a table prayer in which we hold out our hands, singing "hands, hands, hands, thank you God for hands", point at the food and say, "food,..." and then we all hold hands and sing "family,...". Today I was reading Adin a book about body parts, when I came to the hands page I started singing the table prayer. He looked at me, smiled and held out his hands. Then he reached out to hold my hands (for the family part). It was very sweet.

Say what?

Erik's Grampa comes over once a week and watches Adin while I take Erik to Barnehage. Most weeks Grampa brings a snack to share with Erik, and usually it's blueberry muffins. This week, after Grampa left and we were eating lunch we had the following conversation:

Erik: Do you know how to make nuts?
Me: Well, you don't really make nuts, they grow.
E: I mean the kind Grampa bringed.
Me: thought: Grampa brings muffins not nuts. said: Uh, I don't know how to make those.
E: I mean the circle nuts.
Me: I have no idea what you are talking about.
E: Kind of like a bagel nut.
Me: Doughnuts! and then laughed until I fell off my chair.

at the neighbor's

This is so funny. Michelle had to put up the gate to keep Adin out of the kitchen while the kids painted. See Adin peeping over the gate. I'm sure it kills him that he's not in there with Erik.



I love this picture. You can see Adin's blue eyes and that his head tilt is pretty much gone. Yay!

Funny Erik

This morning, out of the blue, Erik started yelling at Adin, "grow up! Grow up right now! Don't be a baby anymore! Stop saying baby words!"

We made corn meal muffins and as he stirred he said he wanted to be a baker when he grows up.

I was feeding Adin and heard Erik singing to himself in the blue room. I couldn't understand the words. Then he asked if I knew the song. I said "no". He came over to me with the worship bulletin from yesterday and asked if I could sing the song. He'd been making up a song to go along with the one printed on the front.

At dinner, Erik asked if Joe and I thought God was a mixer. I said "no, why?" "Because he mixed up the words the people tried to say" [in the Tower of Babel story]. I said, "oh like a cement mixer" and said he thought God was a word mixer.

Last night Erik picked up two sticks and used them as musical instruments. He pretended one was a violin and the other a bow. He hummed the music that his violin was playing. Then I realized he was humming "Eine Kleine Nachtmusik". Now that surprised me!

Stinky Steggy

Today, Elmo wanted a dinosaur. He went to the vet to ask where he could get one. She explained that they are extinct. A couple hours later, Erik asked me why dinosaurs are so stinky. I explained they didn't take baths (they were afraid to wash their hair) and so they were stinky and that's why Elmo couldn't have one. Well, I explained that after I was doubled up laughing for about five minutes. My life has become The Family Circus.

On an adorable note, Erik went to a meeting with Joe tonight and Adin crawled all over the house looking for him, whimpering. I showed him some pictures of Erik and then he was happy.

Potty update

Erik went a week in underwear at night with no accidents! Then he had two nights in a row last week where he woke up wet. Then we put him in a diaper the next night and it was dry in the morning! I know we've been extremely lucky with training him, it's kind of hard to decide now what to do at night.

We went to a Macalester/Augsburg basketball game yesterday. Erik and I spent most of the time walking around the new athletic bldg. We looked in the natatorium (swimming pool), the weight room, and ran around the track. It was fun to see how excited he was about running 50 or 100 yards and how fast he thought he was. I showed him how to do a handoff for a relay race and we did 100 yard relays. We watched some men practice throwing, running and catching frisbees.

Erik worked really hard at being quiet today in church. Everything about him is physical, he taps his feet to the music, would like nothing better than to touch all the instruments, microphones, the water, bread and wine or juice. We had another church member give positive feedback after church this week. Last week the woman we sat with said we could sit with her anytime, she loved kids. This week the man who was doing the communion prep commented on how much fun it was to watch Erik. I really appreciate comments like these. We do get the occasional indirectly negative comment and the positive ones are definitely treasured.

Adin is a solid cruiser. Friday he was watching Erik take a bath and he let go of the side of the tub and stood on his own for half a minute! I had my hands out to catch him if necessary, but he was rock solid. He loves his own baths now that he can sit with Erik. He splashes away and does not seem to mind having his hair washed. When he's done he lets us know by trying to get out of the tub so we have to keep our eyes peeled!

Adin will imitate lots of sounds and gestures now. I wouldn't imagine it'll be too long before we hear his first true word! He says "dada" all the time but indiscriminately. I've heard him say "mama" and he often says things that sound like words - hi, all done, Erik. This is an exciting time. He can do so many fun things and is on the cusp of doing so many more.

He drives Erik crazy when they are playing. He wants what Erik has, Erik wants what Adin has, it's frustrating. I often hear Erik ask, "Don't you know this is my special book [or toy]"? As in, 'you can play with the other books, but not this one'. When one is napping and the other is awake, it isn't long before Adin is crawling to the door of Erik's room, or Erik wants to go upstairs and wake up Adin. They really miss each other when they aren't together!

Erik and Bob

 

Here's Erik with a 36" Bob the Builder puzzle we did together.

Viva Italia!

 

Here they are in their matching Italia hoodies from Zio Paulo and Zia Amy.

Last night I was helping Erik get ready for bed and listing what we would do next: brush teeth, put on diaper, pajamas,... Erik said he wanted to go to bed like I do. Huh? Wearing underwear! So he wore underwear to bed and slept through the night, no accidents! Tonight he asked for a diaper. Which is good, I bought a big box of nighttime diapers a week ago and would have been annoyed if they went to waste.

Adin had his nine month check up on Friday. I can't believe it. He weighed 19 pounds, 7 ounces (25th percentile) and was 30 inches long (90th percentile). The questionnaire I filled out asked if he played Peek a boo or Pat a cake. We play those and he enjoys them, but I didn't think he played them himself. However I checked when we got home, and he does! He'll cover his face with a lovey to play Peek a boo (so cute) and he'll clap his hands and raise them up high for Pat a cake! Today he was imitating me when I said the "p" sound and we often hear him say things that sound like real words.

I have more videos to post but I can't find them on the computer!

Adin is crawling

I finally uploaded the video I took of the kids last week, after I finally bought more video tapes! I tried to adjust the volume during production, but I'm not sure it worked. Sorry if it's sort of loud there at the end.

Brothers

Erik's feelings toward Adin appear to be fairly mild. He ranges from being mildly amused and affectionate to being mildly annoyed and threatened. (Adin just purely adores Erik, no matter what.) Now that Adin is more mobile, he crawls toward Erik and whatever Erik is doing. Erik instantly responds with outraged, "no, he'll ruin it" or "I'm using this" or "no no no no no". I can pretty much persuade him that Adin doesn't mean him any harm, that he can offer Adin another toy, that they can take turns, etc. Also, if Adin makes it close enough he will touch Erik which Erik also protests.

Today at naptime, Erik was laying in his little toddler bed and Adin crawled over, pulled himself up and stood there reaching for Erik. Erik must have been overcome with affection because he reached over and gave Adin a one armed bear hug that lasted so long I had to separate them. I couldn't have been more delighted.

Erik amazes me

Erik woke up with a cold yesterday that steadily got worse. Today when he woke up he was pretty much clobbered. He didn't have much energy or appetite, so we read books and watched TV. After his nap, his temperature was up a little so Joe gave him some Tylenol. He perked right up and was lots of fun this evening.

We watched a "Wallace and Grommit" movie downstairs and towards the end (during the thrilling conclusion)he went upstairs. I wasn't really listening, but I thought he said he was going up for a minute and would be back down. When the movie ended he wasn't back so I went up. I heard a clatter as I came up the stairs and I was a little concerned. I found him in the bathroom. He'd pulled down his own pants and underwear, moved the footstool over to the toilet so he could climb up, got his potty insert and put it on the potty, climbed up, did what he needed to do, climbed down and tried to hang up the potty insert (the clatter was it falling into the tub). I was astounded. That is a lot of steps for such a little guy to take care of. I'm so proud of him!

I know there was something else I was going to tell you, something he said. Oh well. If I remember I'll post again.

Adin

Today I saw Adin crawl on all fours across part of the dining room floor. It was so cute to see his busy little legs.

This afternoon he was pushing a button on a musical toy and when the music played he clapped!

Erik the scientist

Before Erik was born I read somewhere or heard on the radio a story about babies being little scientists exploring and learning about the world. So when they drop a spoon on the floor 100 times, they are conducting an experiment. Erik pours so much energy into observing the people around him sometimes. I really notice it when he's observing kids in a group, what are they doing, can I do that too? But sometimes he does it with me. This morning he asked to go outside to play. So he put on his snowsuit, boots, hat and mittens and played while Adin & I watched through the window. It's quite icy and he loved sliding around. Then he wanted to come in but didn't want to walk on the ice anymore. So I put on boots and came out to get him. When I came to the house I tapped each boot against the frame of the door to get snow off the boots, then I stepped inside and wiped them on the mat. And what do you know, Erik tried to tap his boots on the door frame and then wipe them on the mat! I never would have asked him to do that and he just noticed and did it himself!

If only that level of mental energy could be sustained throughout the day. Unfortunately, he mostly begs to watch tv. It's a definite temptation for me when he does that. I wouldn't mind sitting around all day, watching educational cartoons on PBS.

more crawling!

This morning I learned how to make Adin crawl. I was feeding him some lunch and Erik complained that the electronic keyboard wouldn't work. Adin and I joined Erik in the living room and I plugged in the keyboard. He played for a while and I wanted to teach him a little song. So I put stickers on the three keys needed and prompted him. Blue, green, clock. Blue, green, clock. Green, blue, green, clock, blue, blue. That was fun but then I realized I actually have alphabet stickers. By the time I came back with them, Adin had crawled over to play piano too. This did not make Erik happy. I told him he'd had a turn, now it was Adin's turn, and after I switched the stickers it would be Erik's turn again. Then when it was Erik's turn I moved Adin back about five feet. He crawled back again and again! It was fun. Today he was crawling with two hands and a knee.

Adin is crawling! a little

So Christmas morning I saw Adin army crawling (pulling with arms, but his legs are straight out behind him) around on the hardwood floor. Joe saw him doing the same thing downstairs later. He doesn't do it much. He's way more interested in standing, so if anyone is around he wants us to pull him up to standing. If we're busy and not paying attention, then he will crawl.

He has been waving a little as well, and is sort of smacking his lips to make a kissing sound. It's very cute.

Christmas Eve pictures

I am not too handy with Picasa so pardon me if this link doesn't work. Merry Christmas!

Christmas 2008

Today

Erik and Adin had a bath together this morning. Erik requested that I please not wash Adin's hair, a nice touch of empathy. Adin refrained from crying for about 5 minutes, then lifted his arms to be taken out. I wrapped him in a towel and we watched Erik play for a while.

Adin is very close to crawling. The problem is that he practices his crawling when I'm not near him, as he reaches for things too far away. When I am around, he just wants to hold my thumbs and practice standing up.

Erik is branching into more imaginative play. Two years ago I claimed a used puppet theater and loaned it to some friends with a toddler. Last night they returned it. I didn't think Erik would be very interested but he kind of was. He asked me to make a curtain for the curtain rod, and entertained himself (mostly) while I sewed it. Then I did a puppet show for him with our pathetic cast of puppets: a monkey from the $1 bin at Target, and four stick puppets from Barnehage.

The stick puppets are: Papa, wearing a baseball hat, shirt and boxers; Mama, wearing a firefighter jacket; Erik, wearing normal clothes; and Eleanor, wearing pink and purple clothes. As the Monkey interviewed each person, he complimented Eleanor on her purple pants and shirt, then corrected himself that the shirt was actually pink. This turned out to be the funniest joke Erik has ever heard and he acted out the "play" several times, cracking himself up. I harbored hope that he would act out the play next week for family celebrating Christmas with us. Sadly, the more times he does the play, the more mumbled it becomes until by this evening no one who hadn't heard it 6 times already would have any idea what he said. He even bungled his punch line and cracked up so much on the purple shirt line he forgot to say the shirt was actually pink. Oh well. Maybe he'll think up a new play by next weekend. I did a Nativity play which he politely watched and then requested I do the silly one again.

PSA

I try not to be preachy but here's a great idea. If the link doesn't work, the good idea is quoted below...

As if you needed more proof that economic times for families are tough and likely to get tougher, consider this, In this 2008 holiday season, the average American consumer plans to spend about 1/2 of what they spent last year ($431 versus $816) on gifts (that still totals about $100 billion dollars nationwide).

Your kids will be, of course, still excited to their presents, which are - let's face it - pretty much the meaning of Christmas and Chanukah for most of them (and most of us).

I'm no Grinch, but what if each of us were to donate to charity a mere 10% of our intended expenditures on presents? That would amount to $10 billion dollars. And what might that teach our kids?

That's why I'd like to encourage you to sign on to our PROJECT GOOD HEART, in which you donate to a charity (of your child's choice) the money that you would have spent on one of his/her presents.

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Here's how PROJECT GOOD HEART works:

* Explain to your kids (over the age of 5-6 years or so) that instead of one gift you would have given them, they are to chose a charity to donate whatever dollars that present would have cost.

* Talk about the reasons charities exist and why empathy towards people less fortunate is a family value ("Remember when we saw those people on TV who lost their homes?").

* Discuss with them the various kinds of charities and how they help those less advantaged in many ways.

* Ask them what kind of help they would like to give: for food? shelter? medicine? toys? books? For kids their age? needy families? victims of disasters or war? the poor? endangered animals? the environment?

* Encourage them to put themselves in another's shoes: "If our family was unlucky and lost a lot of the things we now have or we were victims of a storm or a war, how would you want others to help us?"

* Guide the discussion: "Sure, Billy, buying a lot of Twinkies for a homeless family is a great idea and would make them happy for a short minute, but can you think of other ways to help them?"

* But, remember, in the end, it's their donation and their charity. Let them choose.

* On Christmas or Chanukah, give them a Project Good Heart card (you can print the logo above) that says, "X dollars donated by Billy to the ABC charity, where it will be used to ___. Thanks, Billy!"



Perhaps, one day, when the latest toy is rusting in the basement, your kids will remember their charitable gifts as having best taught them the true spirit of the holidays.

*****

The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.
- Hada Bejar

Adin's visit to the ophthamologist

I took Adin to the ophthamologist yesterday, to make sure his torticollis isn't caused by a problem with his vision. We saw three different people. A woman interviewed me briefly then took a look at Adin. She shined a light in his eyes, then held up some sort of prism in front of one eye while shining a light. She showed him big cards with a small hole in the middle. On each card, to one side of the hole there was a square of stripes. The stripes on the cards became less and less distinctly colored (from black and white to grey and white). She played a video on the far wall and looked at Adin's eyes while he watched. She made me tilt him 45 degrees each direction. Then she put a bunch of drops in his eyes and sent us to the lobby to hang out for a half hour.

If you are ever designing your own vision clinic, please keep the lighting in the lobby dim if you plan to send people with dilated eyes to wait there.

We were called back and a man looked into Adin's eyes, then held up some different lenses in front of them. He left, Adin fell asleep in my arms, then the actual ophthamologist came in. I actually forget now if he did any tests himself or just talked with me about the results. He said Adin looked great. He is tracking ok, his visual acuity is fine, he's farsighted (as babies are supposed to be). Everything looked good and he doesn't need a vision check until his three year old well-child visit! Yay! I'm not surprised to hear that everything was fine, but it is a relief.

Erik's observations

A couple weeks ago we were upstairs watching the ceiling fan Erik had turned on. He commented that it looked like a wheel rolling along on the ground!

The other day he saw something hook shaped and thought it looked like the letter J.

Lucky 7s

Ok, just since posting yesterday about Adin going on all fours, he has become more comfortable in that position and will move into and out of it more easily.

Adin had a flu shot today. It went fine. On the way out, my bold husband weighed and measured our boys. Adin was about 17 1/2 pounds (clothed but hungry). Erik was 37 pounds, fully dressed, and 37 inches (in boots).

Adin is reaching

I have been working with Adin to help him with side-sitting (sort of like cheerleaders do), and moving from sitting to hands and knees. He's become more adventurous when he's sitting. He'll reach further and further away to get a toy. A few times now I've seen him get down to his hands and knees by himself, although he doesn't stay up on his knees very long. He plops down on his tummy for a couple minutes and then cries to be moved. I guess after all that work, he's too tired to roll over himself!

I love how he leans his head to mine for kissing and nuzzling. So sweet.

Erik's bedtime

So tonight, Joe got started with Erik on the bedtime routine while I put Adin down to sleep. Then, when Joe was done, I went in and chatted a little with Erik. I left and moments later he said he had to go potty. I took him in the bathroom and became suspicious that he just wanted to play in the sink, but no, he actually had some business to do. While we were waiting, he asked me to draw a picture of him riding in the pink princess car with Kate. (This was a highlight of the most recent trip to Oakes.) He asked me to put in the lawn sign that he and Kate drove over, and Grandpa, who fixed the sign. Erik looked at the drawing for a while, and then asked me to draw the princess on the car. By that time he was done so he brought the picture to bed with him and promptly fell asleep.

Erik is learning the facts of life - Joe read Erik some nursery rhymes and had to say that cats sometimes eat mice. It was hard for Erik to believe this could be true. Later, when I was in the room with Erik he explained it all to me. "Cats eat mice but mice don't eat cats. They don't have very much teeth. Just two teeth like my brother."

Erik's Thanksgiving Update

Well, he's a pottying champ, for one thing. He needs a diaper for overnight, and for naps, but that's it.

We were all up in Joe and my room looking at the fan go around and Erik said it looked like a wheel rolling on the ground.

Sadly, he's taking his tantruming to a new level. He just goes crazy shrieking his head off. I don't like it.

He doesn't like scary things. This includes unfriendly things like sharks and the big bad wolf. He has a zero tolerance policy to masks, which now that Halloween has passed shouldn't be much of a problem!

Thanksgiving Update

Let's see, what's new with Adin? A little while ago, when I hold him he started turning his head to my face with his mouth open. It seems as though he's trying to give me a slobbery kiss. He also leans in to press his face against mine if I'm holding him.

A month ago he started sitting up. He's pretty steady now, although he does tip over, especially if I have him in a room with a hardwood floor! If I leave the room for a bit, he's getting better at reaching further and further away to grasp things. Once he got from sitting down to all fours! That's really important for his learning to crawl.

He might be starting to wave. If he sees me (or other people, too, I suppose) he'll wave one arm. It seems way to early, but I remember being shocked at how early Erik waved, too. I have no idea when it's normal to start waving, it just feels like something they'd do closer to one year.

Still tons of babbling. Sometimes it sounds like word. The other day he woke up, babbled in his crib awhile and it sounded like he said "awake"! Sometimes he does seem to accidentally imitate a syllable, like saying "ba" or "dada" if I do.

Halloween

Erik wasn't very interested in dressing up this year. So he wore regular clothes with Joe's high school football jersey. He enjoyed trick-or-treating until a neighbor answered her door dressed as a witch. Then he was scared and wanted to come home. Joe talked him into trying again and they visited some more people we know. It was great, Erik could eat his candy, but didn't really remember about it so he didn't beg.


Joe and Adin went to ECFE for a while before joining Erik and me at a pumpkin carving party. Adin enjoyed being Yoda. He could probably wear the robe again next year and be Anakin Skywalker. We went to a Halloween library story time and saw Anakin, Princess Lea, and two Boba Fetts.

More Updates

So tonight Erik set up his own drum kit in the basement. He took a saucepan and lid and an empty popcorn tin and lid, arrayed them pretty much as a drum kit - the lids were the cymbals, of course. I came downstairs and he was playing his drums with wooden chopsticks, singing, "I wonder where the yellow went when I brushed my teeth with Pepsodent." Then, "I wonder where the green went when I brushed my teeth with Pepsodent."

He's been using the potty about 75% of awake time for the last week and a half. He has an accident every day or so. He had one yesterday. I smelled something, asked if he had to go, he said no, I gave him a two minute warning and checked Adin's diaper. He was stinky so I changed him then took Erik to the bathroom. As I was undressing him he told me to cover my eyes, so I was suspicious. As I cleaned him up I said I thought he needed a bath and he had a small freak out. But once in the bath he had fun. After the bath he commented on how fun it was, and not that bad. This morning he had a bit of a nightmare, however, thinking he'd had an accident and would need a bath. So I guess I am accidentally using aversion to toilet train him. I'm not really sure where to go from here. Just keep on reminding him to use the potty? Wait and see if he'll just tell me on his own? I'm eager for advice from potty training veterans. I just never imagined this first phase would go so smoothly and quickly.

Catching Up

So here's the latest on Baby Adin. He has two teeth. As of Monday he can roll from his back to his tummy (not that he likes it there). As of tonight he can sit unassisted for a few minutes at a time. He's eating rice cereal and mushy pears. He has a six month check up next week so I'm excited to see his stats.

baby steps

No, not baby Adin. Erik has expressed an interest in not wearing diapers anymore. He wants to wear underwear and sit on the potty. He decided this, well, he announced it right before dinner. He used the potty successfully twice and no accidents, this evening. We have a chart up by his bed. He gets to make a marker stamp when he sits on the potty, put a sticker on if he's "successful" and once he's successful for a week he gets an umbrella. I think the umbrella is what led to his decision. It's quite possible that he will change his mind after a day, but it's exciting to see him motivated and proud.

Baby Adin is getting closer to sitting up. He now needs minimal support from us. Joe finds Adin is most successful when he has one hand on the floor to add stability. He started on rice cereal this week and seems to be a big fan. He isn't quite six months, but I went ahead with it because he's so close and he is so interested in our food. He really watches us eating and often will reach out and try to get some for himself.

Two's Company

Erik started a parent and child class for two year olds today. He had lots of fun painting, singing, and playing on the playground. We've taken Erik to this playground a couple times this month. Although there were other kids the first time we were there, last time he had the playground to himself. So today he pretty much wanted his new friend Levi to get off the fire truck and let him ride alone. Oh well.

Brothers

"Mama, I don't want to do this anymore."

Why is it they never smile at the same time?

theological questions

Erik and I have been role playing the last couple weeks. We'll pretend we're someone else. He'll want to pretend to be someone we saw at the park or a Sesame Street character. Sometimes he wants me to be a different one, sometimes we are the same character. Last night I asked if he was ready to pray to God. He said his prayers and then wanted to pretend he was God! I must admit, it made me uncomfortable when he said "I'm God" even though I knew to him it was no different from pretending he's Elmo. It just feels strange to hear him say he's God, or that I'm God. Then he asked me "who's God". Oh boy. Later, I wished I could use God's reply to Moses "I am" and just say "God is". But that wouldn't satisfy a two year old. So I told him God was our friend, God made us and God loves us. I mean, other than describing God, what else can I say?

a 1st for Adin

ok. if you enlarge this a lot, you can barely see Adin's 1st tooth! it erupted yesterday. I'm hoping he goes back to being all happy, all the time now. I know that's pretty unlikely, but hey, it could happen!




It's funny how hard it is to get a smiley picture. He'll be smiling and interacting with me, but I hold up the camera and his attention is diverted. Then if I get him smiling again, once the red eye comes on he gets his deer in the headlights look. Then if I can get him smiling yet again, when I take the picture I usually only get about half his face! So treasure these good pictures, they take a lot of work.

Adin seems to have caught Erik's cold. He has a runny nose, goopy eyes, and he sneezes and coughs a lot. Erik caught his first cold at 2 months, so I'm very thankful that Adin made it to 5 mos.

Adin's a lot of fun now. He'll reach for and play with cloths and soft toys. He will roll off his tummy and laugh at his own cleverness at escaping tummy time. He will sit with some propping or sit in my lap. That has to be fun for him. When I lay him down again, he strains so hard to sit up! He lifts his head and shoulders off the ground, and his feet and legs too.

I enjoy comparing where he is now with where he was a year ago. Wow! It's pretty amazing.

Adin can play!

Adin is up to some cute highjinks as well. I can prop him up on the couch and give him a toy and he'll hold it and play with it for a while. Yesterday he had a funnel and I showed him a stuffed duck. He was excited by the duck (I guess it's more fun than a funnel!) so I handed it to him. Adin set down the funnel, reached for the duck and then brought his hands together to play with it! It's definitely the most complicated action I've seen him do.

When I put him on his tummy, usually he tries to roll over right away. Sometimes, I can sit next to him and put a little pressure on his shoulder so he can't roll over. If I put a little toy in front of him, he'll reach out for it. That's a big deal too!

Erik's Imaginings

Erik's been imagining things a lot recently. Joe washed a quilt and when he pulled it out of the dryer he wrapped up Erik in it. Erik really adored that and set up a little space with the quilt on the floor, his pillow, nuk & lovey, and then he went and got two stuffed animals. He told me the small monkey was Mormor and the large bear was Morfar. He talked with them, went and got a piano and played a concert for them and kept asking me who each one was. He's continued to pretend the animals are Mormor and Morfar and plays with them and asks them if he can go to their house.

Last night at bedtime, I was reading Erik this book called "Baby Brother". The text of the book is a letter to a grandma, telling about the girl's cat. She had a big belly for a few weeks, then wanted to get into boxes all day, then had kittens. In the pictures, you can see a parallel story about how the girl's mother is pregnant and has a baby the same night as the cat. The last page is "P.S. I have a new baby brother." Erik wanted me to read it to him several times and kept asking why the cat was doing this and that. I tried to explain about her wanting to protect the kittens by having them in a contained area. So then he wanted to pretend that his sock bin was his box and the socks were his kittens! Joe was the neighbor's dog who he had to protect the kittens from. It was so cute!

Sometimes I fail

This is my failure.

Please don't judge me too harshly.

Ha!

Last week, Erik pointed to his belly button a couple times and told us it was his penis. We said, no, it's your belly button.

Erik has been obsessed with cheese sandwiches for months now. We try to offer him other kinds of sandwiches in an effort to distract him and try new things. My mom and I are big fans of PBJs and the Lindells put peanut butter on everything so he is often offered peanut butter. He usually says no.

Earlier this week, Erik was shirtless getting ready for a nap. He looked at me, pointed to his belly button and said very slowly, syllable by syllable, "This is my peanut button." I don't know if I have ever laughed so hard.

Aww.

Tonight during a re-putting Erik to bed, he was kneeling by the bed with his head resting on the bed. I suggested we say our prayers and thanked God for a bunch of stuff. Then Erik said he had one. "Dear God, thank you for Adin."

Belly Laughs

Ok, if you can't get enough stories about cute and funny things kids say, check out the post and comments from Laid Off Dad. Don't read this at work, unless your office has a door, because your co-workers will be annoyed hearing you laugh out loud for a half hour.

http://laidoffdad.typepad.com/lod/2008/08/in-the-defense.html

Every day Erik says things like this that I try to remember long enough to post about here.

Look at me!

 

 

Erik and Joe were playing in the basement and Erik found this fleece my mom made me. Erik asked to see the blanket and was amazed when he learned it was something to wear! He came upstairs wearing it to surprise me. Mabye mom will have to make him one while she's here.

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

 

Joe decided to take Erik to the Twins game today. Erik was very excited about taking the bus. I walked with them to the busstop, then decided I was jealous and decided to go along.

 

Erik enjoyed looking out the windows at all the exciting things Minneapolis has to offer. He was looking for the bike trail in this picture. I believe we are stopped on a bridge and the trail passes underneath.

 

We started off in the lower rows of the upper deck. It was a well attended game, and there were people on all sides of us. It was too hard for Erik to keep from kicking the people in front of us, or walking around, so he and I went up, up, up to the top of the stands. He had lots of fun walking around up there, looking for the number two on seats, banging on seats, and doing the wave.

 

As usual, Adin was pretty chill about the whole day. He was happy just hanging out, taking in his first Twins game.

Erik was ready to go home in about the sixth inning but hung in there till the top of the eighth. On the bus ride home, the woman sitting across from us started talking to us about the game. He asked me if she wanted to get off the bus (like he did). I said I didn't know. He said maybe he should ask her. So he did! She said she was getting off soon. It was fun to see him feel comfortable interacting with strangers.

baby birds

 

We went to Sunset Park but the playground equipment was all wet. So we found other things to do. Like watch the baby birds being fed by their parents. Erik was enthralled and so was I.

Summer Fun

 

Adin is doing his tummy exercises. This mat helped a lot. I think he stayed on his tummy for four minutes at a time the first couple times I put him on this! Thanks Mormor.
 

We drove out to Minnetonka and watched the Wesley Homes team beat the Cutting Edge team 11 to 1. Afterwards, Erik got to run the bases for the first time.
 

It's a home run!
 

Adin found it all very overwhelming. Or else it was sunny and naptime.

Glimpses of maturity

We were getting Erik ready to go to the neighbors and he was starting to spin out of control. I sat him down in a chair and told him to calm his body. He said, "ok". He then dumped out a box of Little People. I picked him up, put him by the front door and told him to stay there. After asking if he could walk over to Michelle's by himself (no) he said he was going to clean up! I was so pleased. I told him how happy it made me and that it made me want to help him clean. Hooray!